My Obsession

I have an obsession with a certain pop star, who (out of respect to my boyfriend) will remain nameless. So, when I came across this article I laughed. You can read the whole thing for yourself if you wish, but here's the part that pertained to me:

Just because you’re not a groupie doesn’t mean you’re
immune to the charms of the leading men of popular music. But crushing on a
particular crooner can communicate more than just your ring-tone preference; it
can actually reveal volumes about what you’re looking for romantically—and what you should be wary of. Read on to understand the reasons why someone rocks your
world...

4. Hunk Next Door The usual suspects: Jon “It’s My Life” Bon Jovi, Kenny “No Shoes, No Shirt, No Problems” Chesney, Justin “Let’s Take a Ride” Timberlake. What’s so hot about him? Your taste in men gravitates to a good-time guy who looks cool washing his car in the driveway... and, hey, he’ll be happy to drop by for a beer. He’s got an easy smile and a mellow attitude, but exudes a quiet strength, too.What he means to you: A good time—and maybe more. “On the surface, the Hunk Next Door is simply someone to hang out with who won’t give you a hard time,” says Blake. “But there may be real substance to him.” He won’t fall apart when the going gets tough, and he may have things to teach you, like patience. When it comes to commitment he takes it slow, and he doesn’t open up easily, so you’ll have to draw him out. Yet even if he does prove to be a rock, there’s a chance you might get bored. “It can get tiring if you’re the one initiating all the time, making all the decisions,” says Blake. Before you move on to someone less laid back, communicate your needs and challenge him to challenge you.